Creative
electrical wiring coursed through the walls of my childhood home. A number of
light switches seemed to have been installed either upside down or backwards.
My dad, who had no formal training as an electrician, was prone to tap into the
house’s electrical system and add outlets now and then as the need arose. I’m
sure the house would have given nightmares to any conscientious building safety
inspector.
Within the
church, I’ve met women who seem to struggle with their own weird wiring. They
wonder if they fit in, or how they fit in, or whether or not they’ve got
anything to offer within the body of Christ. For those wrestling with similar
questions, Holley Gerth’s new book, You’re
Already Amazing: Embracing Who You Are,
Becoming All God Created You to Be, offers good news. God had intention
and purpose in creating you the way you are.
With warmth
and humor, and demonstrating a love for God’s word, Gerth encourages women to
make the most of who God designed them to be. Too often, I think, women within
the church have made the mistake of equating humility with a denial of their God-given
strengths and talents. Or they stand like the woman accused before Jesus and
hear voices of condemnation, their own or those of trusted others saying, “You’re
stupid. You’re ugly. You think God is going to use someone like you? You’ve
really got nothing of significance to offer, have you?”
Drawing from
her experience as a counselor, Gerth offers diagnostic tools to assist women in
identifying their unique strengths, skills, and relational styles. One of my
concerns, upon reading the title, was that the book’s emphasis would echo those
of so many others shelved in self-improvement sections of bookstores. Surely
contemporary culture sends enough messages that I should love myself and work
toward building my self-esteem. I wasn’t sure I was interested in a book that
was introspective and self-focused, when the gospel calls me to spend myself
for Christ and his kingdom.
Gerth
encourages women to listen to biblical truth rather than lies of hyped-up
self-esteem or of unmerciful condemnation. Instead of being a self-indulgent
exercise in introspection, Gerth’s book suggests:
If your intent is to love God, others, and
yourself more, then knowing who you are is one of the most unselfish things you
can do.
Gerth identifies
another common area of struggle among women, one which keeps many from
believing God has a purpose for their lives. She suggests that, too often, we
compare ourselves with one another and believe we fall short; we’re not like
the other women in the church. Gerth says it’s actually a good thing when one
approaches life differently than those around her. She says,
If most people don’t do what you do, and
you’re passionately pursuing Jesus with your life, then it’s probably not just
a human plan. The heartbeat of God is probably somewhere within it. We need
you, just you, to fulfill that purpose, complete that project, bring that gift
to the world in a way no one else can.
While
reading through Gerth’s book, I didn’t take the time to work through all the
exercises. However, I believe the tools, questions, and study guide at the end
of the book would provide meaningful context for discussion, either in small
groups or within a mentoring relationship. I appreciated Gerth’s repeated recommendations
to discuss, with a trusted friend, one’s responses to the book’s questions. In
addition to Gerth’s recognition that God has created each of us as unique, she
reminds her readers that we are not to live out our callings in isolation.
Gerth emphasizes the value of community and relationship within the body of
Christ.
In the
spirit of full disclosure, I probably should make a confession. I have sort of
a girl crush on Holley’s voice. It’s likely she could write just about any
ridiculous nonsense in her sweet southern style, and I would eat her words up
with a spoon.
The good
news about this book is that it’s not ridiculous nonsense. You’re Already Amazing is a warm, thoughtful, and biblical means of
encouraging women to accept their own weird wiring and pursue with joy the
calling God has for their lives.
Disclosure: You’re
Already Amazing is published by Revell, a division of Baker Publishing
Group, which provided a free copy for my review. The above opinion is my own.
This post contains no affiliate links; I earn no compensation for any purchases
of this book.
InCourage is
featuring Holley’s book this month in a book club discussion beginning Monday,
March 26. They are also hosting a giveaway at their site. Click the InCourage
link for details.