Saturday, December 3, 2011

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year To Be Lucy and Ethel

Mama always says, "Don't wear your bedroom slippers to the shopping mall."

But Mama's wisdom doesn't necessarily apply during Christmas. Especially when you've got some brand new jingling elf slippers:

And you're on your way with Ethel to get your annual Santa picture taken:

But I'm getting ahead of myself. First we had to have lunch and exchange gifts. And nothing quite sets the tone for a Christmas gift exchange like a retro diner which serves 26-inch hotdogs:

Over the years, Ethel and I have adorned ourselves for our photos with some fairly ridiculous accessories: reindeer antlers, elf hats, feather boas. This year, after reading an ebook about practicing Advent, we decided to deck ourselves in purple. Yep, all day I was a long, cool, walking Advent pillar, and so was Ethel (although she's not nearly as long). All day we engaged in our own little secret Advent conspiracy.

Because writer Anne Lamott said, "You don't always have to chop with the sword of truth. Sometimes you can point with it, too."

So we walked around all day bearing witness to the Source of ridiculous joy. And the amazing thing we discovered was: Once you know what you're looking for, you start seeing evidence of it everywhere:

Ethel gave me the most fantastically amazing handmade gift of love:

She saw a picture in a catalog of a sweater beaded in peacock feather patterns and thought to herself, "I can do that." And so she did. God has gifted my friend with amazing creativity and mad art skills.

I gave Ethel ice cube molds in the shape of false teeth. Because I'm classy like that. And because I know that someday, when we live next door to one another in a nursing home, she's the kind who's always going to be stealing my teeth. And I look forward to growing old and ever more ridiculous with my friend.

Then she opened the elf slippers. And we were on our way:


We like to believe we add a little joy to Santa's life, making the season more merry and bright for everyone:

For it is good to be children sometimes, and never better than at Christmas, when its mighty Founder was a child himself.
Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol

Happy Advent and Merry Christmas from Lucy and Ethel!

Linking our Advent playdate with Laura @ The Wellspring:


And, even though this may not have been what she had in mind, with Charity @ Wide Open Spaces who is hosting an Advent community writing project for The High Calling:

Chesterton, Lucy, Ethel, and Santa: The story of how our tradition began

Discovering Advent: E-book by Mark D. Roberts

19 comments:

Lyla Lindquist said...

Dang, I wish I lived a little closer to you folks. Because I would love to crash your Lucy-Ethel parties now and again. Mostly so I could stand off to the side, watch you through the hand over my eyes, and pretend I didn't know you.

Looks like you had a spectacular day together, and I'm glad. Folks need folks like the two of you in their lives.

(I think that starting next year, you need to up the ante on your holiday tradition and work your way through each of the 50 states to meet Santa Claus. You can start with South Dakota.)

Megan Willome said...

Oh, Nancy! You fill me with joy.

(false teeth ice cubes???)

Brandee Shafer said...

Everyone needs a friendship like this.

Southern Gal said...

What fun! I love the quote by Dickens. Not chopping with the sword and pointing with it instead? Love that, too. Lucy and Ethel friendships are the best. Which makes me wonder if you and Ethel ever sing that friendship song while ripping each other's matching dresses...

;)

diana said...

As much as I love reading about all this fancy frivolity - so MUCH MORE do I wish I could see it in person. LOVE the photos and they surely do help to transport me there a bit. YOu two are vey lucky to have each other - and husbands who encourage you in this joyful friendship.

Sheila said...

Wait. Wait. Wait.

What, precisely, is ridiculous about feather boas?

I love the joy that you and Ethel pack into one single day, tighter than that 26 inch hot dog is packed into its casing.

And that Dickens quote? I need that right now.

Loving this. And wanting you to take the friendship on the road. Remember the wineries....?

Amy Sullivan said...

I remember a post you did last year about Ethel. I think the two of you are pretty fun, slippers and all.

Unknown said...

sigh. I love everything about this. Every thing. You guys are wonderful.

Jodi said...

Good times! I wish I could have come as the pink candle :)

Sandra Heska King said...

Love, love, love this!

And this--bearing witness to the Source of ridiculous joy. Yes!

Janie Fox said...

This looks so fun. I love the slippers. Friends like this are such a blessing. Party on dude.

Michelle DeRusha said...

I love your annual Santa picture with Ethel!

And that sweater! She is tres talented!!

SL Burlhis said...

I love you two so much.

Leslie said...

i. love. this. so much :)

p.s. my friend connect gadget is working weirdly. i keep finding that people i've followed are not showing up in my blog reader. have you noticed any problems with yours?

Laura said...

I love you girls! You are the funnest. I'm with Lyla...we need to move a bit closer. Speaking of such, are you going to Jubilee this year? I haven't registered yet, but am thinking about it...

Linda said...

What fun! What a delightful read! Thanks for the smiles.

Linda

Dolly@ Soul Stops said...

This was so much fun to read and I imagine even more fun for you and your friend...Thanks for the chuckles and smiles today :)

Anonymous said...

Nancy - This is such a wonderfully fun post. I read it when you first posted - sorry I didn't get over here to comment earlier.

And I love that once you went look for Advent joy, you found it every where!

And if you take up Lyla's suggestion for a 50-state tour, I want to be your Indiana hostess!

Patricia said...

This is so much fun! Can't believe I missed it the first go round. I will be your hostess in MI when you tour. I even know a good natured, one legged Santa who might add a little fun to your stop here. You and Ethel are so blessed to have each other as friends.

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