Thursday, April 12, 2012

UBP Like It's 2012


 Ultimate Blog Party 2012

It’s that time of year again, time for Ultimate Blog Party 2012. If this is your first visit, welcome. Let me show you around. (And if you’re an old friend, you’re welcome to stay, too. Just don’t eat all the snacks)

My name’s Nancy Franson, and I’m Out of My Alleged Mind. As I told my future son-in-law the first time we met, you never can be quite sure about me; whether I’m trying to be funny or I’m just plain crazy. And that’s my edge. This post: About the Blog Title explains, well, pretty much what you’d expect it to explain.

I wanted to have the place all cleaned up in time for the party, but I’m in the process of moving. I’ve been threatening since the fall to transfer my blog over to Word Press. But, as I often say about all things technical, “Things did not go as planned.”

Then again if I were to invite you over to my house, I may or may not have all the laundry neatly folded and put away. I’ve reached a point in my life where I’ve quit trying to hide all the mess, and this is a place where I invite folks to enter into it. I’m convinced that one of the chief purposes of my life is to tell my stories as a cautionary tale for others.

And through my stories, I hope to bear witness to God’s faithfulness in meeting me in my mess.

I’ve written this post about what I believe.  On my blog I sometimes make jokes about being a Presbyterian, because that’s what I am. Sometimes I wonder if there aren’t folks in my church who secretly wish I’d just run off and join the Methodists. But they’re stuck with me. It’s probably predestined.

I’m a freelance writer; and because that’s what it says on my business card, it must be true. I homeschooled my kids for many years and, as they began leaving home, I started looking for writing projects to give me something to do. One of my first was a series of interviews with an elderly friend who was losing her memory to dementia. We gave bound copies of her story to her friends and family members the Christmas before she died.

Another early project was interviewing some folks who are part of the Coalition for Christian Outreach, (CCO). The CCO is a Pittsburgh-based college ministry which, in my completely unbiased opinion, is about the most happening one on the planet.

I love telling stories, my own and those of others who cross my path. My brother, who reads my blog, said he imagines most people think I make up the stories I tell here. He can confirm, however, that they are (mostly) true.

Although I homeschooled for many years, I don’t often write about my experience. I think I need some distance to gain some perspective on those years. I didn’t always love it, and writing about it now might just come across as mean. I hope that when I do tell those stories; the good, the bad, and the ugly, I can tell them with honesty and grace.

Both of my children are adopted, and I gladly tell the stories of God’s goodness in bringing to me the exact ones he knew I needed. I sponsor, through the good work of Compassion International,  a child from the Philippines out of gratitude for my son who was born there.

I love the beach, I love Christmas, and I love my friend Ethel. I’m a huge fan of hijinks, shenanigans, feather boas, and guacamole. I prefer pie to cake. I’m originally from the Pittsburgh area and, yes, I do bleed black and gold for my Steelers. And the mere existence of the Baltimore Ravens makes me sad.

Me with Michelle DeRusha, Deidra Riggs, and Mary Bonner
I often refer to the people I’ve met in blog world as my imaginary friends. It’s been my privilege to meet several of them in real life, and they have demonstrated themselves to be as genuine as folks can be. Some of the communities where I like to hang out on the internet include:  The Wellspring, Graceful, Finding Heaven, Imperfect Prose, Jumping Tandem, and Faith Barista.

Me with Jodi from Curious Acorn
I’m also honored to have been featured at The High Calling, a community of some of the most thoughtful people on the internet discussing the connection between faith and work.

Yes, I am available to guest post. Please ask.

I strongly believe that one of the privileges of being a follower of Christ is getting to speak words of blessing over one another, so may God’s grace and peace be upon you. Thanks for stopping by.

If you’ve enjoyed your visit here, won’t you consider subscribing by email, liking my Facebook page, or following me on Twitter (@nancyfranson) or Pinterest?

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37 comments:

Megan Willome said...

I do hope that someday, perhaps when you have more perspective, that you will write about the not-so-great parts of homeschooling. It would greatly encourage pagan, public school people like me, who are often made to feel like we don't care about our kids.

Janie Fox said...

You crack me up and someday I hope to sit on your couch and fold laundry for you.

Mary Bonner said...

Imagine meeting you at the UBP12!!

Nancy Franson said...

:) Did you find yourself in my post?

Nancy Franson said...

Sadly, that can be one of the downsides. Parenting is hard enough; we really do need to learn to extend more grace to one another. And, anyone who's met you can have no doubt about how much you love your kids. Truly.

Nancy Franson said...

Janie, somehow I think if you stopped by my house we'd find much more interesting things to do than fold laundry! And then, boy howdy, would we have some stuff to write about!

Mary Bonner said...

Of course I did! That was such a fun time!!

Ostricheslookfunny said...

pinterest? are we not pinterest friends yet? GAH!

Ostricheslookfunny said...

hum. we already are pinterest friends. weird.

Nancy Franson said...

Umm...yep! You're the one who invited me in the first place. It took me awhile, but you know me...I follow you just about anywhere on the internet. :)

bethinnc said...

Nancy, ha -- you're too cute. The Presbyterian comment about being predestined was too funny!

I appreciate you stopping by during the party! I love meeting other Jesus lovers out here in the blogosphere!

Wow, your brother reads your blog? I can't imagine my brother looking through my pages. :-O

Great meeting you! (Oh, and best wishes switching to Wordpress. I finally made the big switch about a year ago.)

In Him,
Beth

Jen Ferguson said...

To all who read this - Nancy rocks and you will be blessed by her words here!

MTereasa said...

Love this! There are so many faces I see at link-ups every week, but I never have the time to meet. Seriously, some of those link-ups have A LOT of people. I usually just visit those directly around me. Well... since this is a party, I thought I'd spend more time in the room and work my way around to everyone. Yea! That means I finally get to meet the lady behind your pretty mug. I like you already! And guess what? We have some things in common. I am (still) home schooling and I have two adopted children. Maybe you can offer some wisdom along the way! Nice to meet you, Nancy.

Blessings,
Tereasa from hispenonmyheart.com

Jean Wise said...

I loved this and getting to know you better. We MUST meet in person someday. And I didn't know you were on Pinterest so hopped over there and followed you. I really enjoyed learning more about you Nancy.

Nancy Franson said...

Thanks Jean, and I'll be heading your direction soon. I'll message you with details.

Nancy Franson said...

Awww...shucks! Thanks, Jen.

Lyla Lindquist said...

Megan is pagan? ;-) You two both love your kids so much it turns you inside out. Nobody needs to question, end of discussion. (I like to say that, end of discussion, because when I say it at home, the discussion seems to just get started...)

Nancy, what a fun piece. I'm scrambling to find a pencil and write down my favorite one-liners for future use.

.... one of the chief purposes of my life is to tell my stories as a cautionary tale for others.

... It’s probably predestined.

....because that’s what it says on my business card, it must be true.

These are the times I hear your actual voice in my head. And you think *you're* out of your alleged mind?

Kaye Swain - SandwichINK for Grandparents and Caregivers said...

Hi I popped over from the Ultimate Blog Party 2012 and really enjoyed the post. I loved your story of your friend who's book you helped her write as she was developing Alzheimers Disease. What a wonderful gift full of sweet family memories for her and her whole family! I'm definitely going to enjoy following you. Have a blessed week.

Nancy Franson said...

I also like saying, "I don't just go around making up these rules," but maybe I'll try on "End of discussion" now and then, just to see how that works out.

And, yeah. What you said about Megan.

Simply Darlene said...

Soooo, I'm imaginary. Dude, that explains a whole lot.

Blessings.

Simply Darlene said...

I mean, dudette. Cause you are a girl and all.

Oh yeah, what's the deal with the party? Do you put the banner up and then have the freedom to talk about yourself? Can't we do that any ole time. Ya know, I confuse easily, being imaginary does that to me.

Happy Friday. We have sunshine today. That explains the scatter-chatter.

Blessings.
(again)

Nancy Franson said...

We're all imaginary Darlene. Anyway, the blog party happens once a year. It's hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom and hundreds of bloggers link to it and introduce themselves to one another. It's sort of like speed dating for bloggers.

And, there are prizes! Like Amazon gift cards! And I love me some Amazon gift card.

Feel free to stop by frequently and extend your blessings.

(BTW--I stopped by and read your interviews this week but didn't comment because I was fighting with my computer. I knew it was gonna be Glynn! Good job.

Nancy Franson said...

Oops. Meant to give you the link: <a href="http://www.5minutesformom.com/51797/ultimate-blog-party-2012/</a>

Nancy Franson said...

Ooops. Meant to give you the link to the party which, for some reason, I can't get to hyperlink. Grrrrr......

Anyway: http://www.5minutesformom.com/51797/ultimate-blog-party-2012/

Simply Darlene said...

thank you
and
thank you

Glenda Childers said...

How fun to come to the party and find a friend.

Deidra said...

"boy howdy"

Yep. I love you.

Deidra said...

Well, this is cool. And, what Megan said, and what Lyla said about you and Megan. And what Jen said.

I look at that photo of us at Relevant and it takes me right back to that weekend. I had a blast with you ladies! Who knew imaginary could be so much fun? And so very necessary.

Mary Bonner said...

Hey, Nancy...I've always had mixed emotions about blog awards, but participated anyway. I gave you one. You bless me more than you know!

Read about it here: http://memyselfandmercy.blogspot.com/2012/04/pleasant-surprise_14.html

Nancy Franson said...

Hi Glenda! Nice to see you at the party as well. I'll be dropping by your place.

Nancy Franson said...

I know! I never seem to have enough time to visit all the folks I want to. Thanks so much for wandering over, Tereasa. Heading over to your place now.

Nancy Franson said...

Yeah, both my brothers, my sister, and my kids read my blog (so I really need to be careful about what I say!)

Great meeting you, too. Enjoy the party :)

Michelle DeRusha said...

And the descriptions listed here are just a FEW of the reasons why I love you!

I'm sorry I've been a stranger around here, my dear. Life has spiraled out of control. It's all good...but I have missed you. xxoo

Jamie said...

Nancy, I hopped on over her from the UBP (figuratively, of course!) and I've chuckled my way through this entire post! I'm so glad I stopped by. I absolutely cannot wait to read more!

Blessings,
Jamie

Ramona said...

Well it's so great to get to know you more and giggle at your sense of humor. I originally met you through write it, girl. I look forward to staying connected.

cherylsmith said...

Wait! A party? Am I too late?? Can I bring club crackers and some kickin' pimento cheese that I picked up at the beach last week? And what's this whole week long party about? Maybe I missed it because I'm skimming through everything like crazy, trying to catch up.

And Lyla is right. Those comments she highlighted? I loved them too. And you! Crazy, feather boaed girl and all.

Nancy Franson said...

Cheryl, you are welcome to come party with me anytime!

The week long party is a virtual meet-and-greet hosted by 5 Minutes for Mom. You can get more details by clicking the button at the top of the post--not too late to join in and introduce your fabulous self to more people who need to know you!

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