Mom stood by
the stove, in the stickiness of a hot summer evening, stirring together peanut
butter, sugar, and condensed milk. The scent of sour milk clung to the sticky
night air, escaping through the window screen and reaching me on the porch
railing where I sat watching. I couldn’t bear to be inside the hot kitchen where
my mother worked. As mom stirred, I knew
the sour would turn into the sweetness of peanut butter fudge. She had already
made chocolate fudge and baked a batch of chocolate chip cookies to sell at our
backyard carnival for Muscular Dystrophy.
My sister
had sent away for the carnival planning kit advertised during Paul Shannon’s Adventure Time show which
we watched every day after school on the local Pittsburgh TV station. We planned
our carnival hoping to raise enough money to be invited to the studio and
appear on the show. My mom made cookies and fudge on a hot summer evening to
help us because she’d watched her brother die from the disease.
The carnival
kit came with instructions for planning and advertising our event. We tacked up
posters around town, placed ads in The
Allied News, our local paper, and listened for our announcement on WEDA,
the hometown radio station. The planning kit included an official letter from
Paul Shannon himself which we took to local merchants asking them to donate
prizes for our carnival. A jewelry store owner donated a ceramic elephant
decorated in flecks of gold paint. It had come from a jeweler and was flecked
in gold, so I was certain we had scored a valuable raffle prize worth perhaps
hundreds of dollars, all because of our official Paul Shannon letter.
We planned
simple games: ring toss, a bean bag throw, a fishing pond in a wading pool. I
wished we could have had a dunking booth like the one at our downtown street
fair each summer. My dad helped us set up a sheet we could poke our heads
through so kids could take turns throwing wet sponges at one another. It was
close enough.
Because we
hoped to raise a lot of money and get ourselves on TV, we wanted to charge a
quarter for each of our games and for the refreshments. On the night before the
carnival, Dad asked us to lower our prices. He thought a quarter might be too
expensive for some of the kids in the neighborhood, and he wanted to be sure
everyone who wanted to could come and have a good time.
The day of
the carnival arrived, and it exceeded almost all of our expectations. Our front
yard was piled high with the bikes neighborhood kids had ridden to our house.
Our backyard was full of fun and games and summertime play. We soaked one
another with wet sponges. A neighbor boy from across the alley must have spent
every bit of loose change he had buying raffle tickets for the gold elephant,
which he won.
At the end
of the day, we’d raised a couple of hundred dollars. We didn’t reach the
threshold for earning an invitation to appear on TV. We were rewarded with a
ride on The Gateway Clipper, a party boat which travels the three rivers which meet
in the city of Pittsburgh.
Muscular Dystrophy
has not been cured; the Muscular Dystrophy Association continues to hold
fund-raising telethons every Labor Day weekend. But perhaps our afternoon of
backyard summer fun helped a family afford leg braces or a wheelchair. And
remembering my parents as they worked alongside us holds great value, worth
more to me than an appearance on TV or any gold-flecked jewelry store elephant.
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30 comments:
What beautiful memories your family created. My brother is in a wheelchair, not from Muscular Dystrophy, but from an accident that resulted in paralysis. I am always so grateful when I hear of families helping those who cannot walk.
Blessings to you today.
I did that too and had a great time with the kids in my neighborhood. I don't remember that we raised a lot of money, but I had a sense of ownership to a non-profit with a mission to cure a disease I would have otherwise never heard of. Pretty big stuff for a kid.
We used to have sleepovers during the Labor Day telethons. In the days before cable and in the early days of cable, when else would the television be on ALL NIGHT?
I remember baby-sitting gigs that lasted until after the stations went off the air. Man, it was tough to stay awake!
I remember baby-sitting gigs that lasted until after the stations went off the air. Man, it was tough to stay awake!
What a beautiful picture of love and community! I love the gold-flecked elephant!!!!
MD has touched our family, too. My husband's cousin died from duchenne muscular dystrophy. Donnie volunteered at an MD camp during the summer when he was a teenager. I've never heard of the carnivals. What a great way to raise money while having fun. You know most of the MD kids we've known just wanted to have fun like everyone else. A great story, Nancy.
I remember trying to stay awake for the whole telethon one year. I failed. It's only a few hours now.
What a fun and sweet memory, Nancy! I could just see you two girls, making big plans. And do you know that the Gateway Clipper used to come to Huntington when I was in grad school? I love tracing that path of water in my mind that led to you, my friend.
What a fun and sweet memory, Nancy! I could just see you two girls, making big plans. And do you know that the Gateway Clipper used to come to Huntington when I was in grad school? I love tracing that path of water in my mind that led to you, my friend.
every little bit helps and you had some creative fun in doing it...thank you for what you did....
I wish I had known you when we were kids. I think you would have kept me out of trouble. The part about the boy spending every penny for the gold-flecked elephant was touching, too. I wonder who he wanted to give it to. This is a story full of love.
what wonderful memories to have from your childhood and you made a positive difference... made me smile as I read it :) Thanks, Nancy.
wow, this was so beautiful. You wrote it well, with snap and crackle of fresh memories. I could taste it man.
I think this was one of my favorites.
looking for a like button... i hate how facebook has changed the way i think.
and this is the real kind of effort instead of the bra-color posting on facebook for BCawareness. i love the tender-heartedness of this post of you as a young girl. and also the sweet and sour combo... the sour milk turning sweet. the sourness of a life touched by MD to one aided by a summer carnival. so sweet, nancy.
So glad that you carnival was successful - and for such a worthy cause. These are important experiences for children, to do something meaningful and significant and huge. It plants the seeds of possibility.
Misty got it just right---no slactivism here! What a beautiful story. And when parents come alongside and endorse their children's dreams, their desire to serve? That's one of the miracles He built in to us, right there. I can see the children tossing sponges, gathering nickels to buy raffle tickets.
Love this.
I remember these!!!!
Oh, what a lovely heartwarming story of a family loving each other and giving that love to the community and then to those suffering. You painted a wonderful picture of a moment in your childhood. And what real community looks like.
Oh, what a lovely heartwarming story of a family loving each other and giving that love to the community and then to those suffering. You painted a wonderful picture of a moment in your childhood. And what real community looks like.
Oh, what a lovely heartwarming story of a family loving each other and giving that love to the community and then to those suffering. You painted a wonderful picture of a moment in your childhood. And what real community looks like.
you made my stomach growl in that first paragraph. and then you filled me full with the other paragraphs. nancy, you write so, so well. don't stop. i know i've said that before, but i mean it.
Thanks, em. Coming from you, that means so much. And congrats again. So glad your voice is being heard. xoxox
Thanks, friend. You taught me everything I know!
Keep you out of trouble? Did you read my airplane story? I've wondered about who he gave the elephant to as well.
Thanks. Smiling back :)
Seems like we were destined to meet, friend! What do you say? Want to come back to Jubilee and hop a ride on the Gateway Clipper?
Thanks for sharing your family's story here. That camp sounds like an amazing experience.
such a good good story. in so many ways...
Nancy, I don't know how I missed then when you posted it last month but this is a great story. YOU are a great storyteller!! I have been trying to get to your place all week, but have had some computer issues and what not...so glad I found this - even if it is a month after you wrote it!
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