Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Serving a Risen Savior

On Sunday mornings, when my sister and I had spent the night at my cousin’s house, we would often awake to the sound of my uncle cranking out the morning’s church bulletins on his mimeograph machine. My sister, my cousin, and I folded the pages, and I thought my uncle must have been a very important man in his church to have had his own mimeograph machine. He was.

My uncle was killed in a car accident on a Sunday afternoon just four days prior to marking his sixtieth wedding anniversary. A quiet man, this uncle had been present at the family farm most Sunday afternoons among all the aunts, uncles, and cousins. These were God-fearing people whose Bible was King James and whose theology was black-and-white. They stood on the promises and served a living Savior. At my uncle’s funeral, the sermon he had lived required the combined efforts of four pastors to preach.

We gathered at a funeral home in Fryburg, PA, a tiny, rural community on the outskirts of places like Sawtown, Fertigs, Coal Hill, and Venus. Built to hold roughly fifty mourners, the building was quickly filled to overflowing. Over two hundred crowded inside as others waited out in the January cold. These were working men and farmers, some dressed in camouflage or their coveralls and work boots the way my uncle would have known them. Some dug out suits which had rarely seen the outside of a closet. Poorly fitting suit jackets stuck out beyond the sleeves of red NASCAR coats.

These mourners knew my uncle from church and from his machine shop. One of the pastors mentioned that, if my uncle couldn’t find a part to fix something, he made one. Many of those crowded into the funeral home had spent hours in his well-ordered shop watching a master craftsman at work. He fixed broken things with his hands and welcomed broken people into his shop. Sometimes he employed some of these local folk, people who were out of work because of bad economic times or because of bad choices they’d made in life.

My uncle was a pastor’s friend. Serving often as the peacemaker and voice of reason at church meetings, my uncle made a point of visiting his pastors to encourage them in their work. He prayed for them, and they knew it. They sought solace with him in his shop. One pastor spoke of the number of times he’d been on his way into the hospital to visit an ailing church member, only to cross paths with my uncle already on his way out. Another had had the opportunity to attend graduate school because my uncle had paid his tuition.

One of the pastors said that when there was work to be done at church my uncle was there, even in advancing years, declining health, and debilitating pain. He showed up even when young, healthy, able-bodied members didn’t. When asked why he continued to work so hard, he responded, “God gives me grace to endure.” He said it in a way that didn’t sound trite. It didn’t sound like a platitude. It sounded true and made things like grace and endurance and service seem like things that really are true and really are gifts from God. He said it in a way that made me want to desire them more and want to complain less.

News of my uncle’s death reached one of his former pastors just as he was about to step into the pulpit for the Sunday evening service. Members of his congregation had never met my uncle but, after hearing testimony of his life, felt as though they had. One woman said, “I didn’t know men like that still existed.” I will never craft a machine part with my hands, but I pray for grace to serve my risen Savior as he did.

Writing in community with Jennifer @ Getting Down With Jesus and The High Calling. This post is a revised version of an earlier piece I had written and then removed because it contained details which weren't my story to tell. I'm grateful for this opportunity to retell my memories of the life of a godly man.

20 comments:

happygirl said...

What a tribute. What a Godly man. I wish I knew more men like him. There are so many willing to find fault, but your uncle was a supporter of pastors. Again, such a tribute. Beautiful.

Brandee Shafer said...

I love this post because I love stories about people who have integrity: people who walk with Jesus when they're being their most authentic selves, even when no one else is watching.

Jennifer @ JenniferDukesLee.com said...

This man's faith statement could be encapsulated in these 14 words:

"He fixed broken things with his hands and welcomed broken people into his shop."

That's Gospel livin' right there.

So very glad you took part in this project, my friend.

Southern Gal said...

A great tribute to a great man of God. I love hearing the stories of lives lived to the fullest. Thanks for sharing it again.

Jean Wise said...

Beautiful tribute to a well lived life! Makes you wonder what they will say at our funerals, doesn't it?

diana said...

Beautifully written, Nancy. Thanks so much for posting it. What a heritage you have!

Radical Believer said...

"He fixed broken things with his hands and welcomed broken people into his shop."

I know Jennifer got there first, but this is as fine an epitaph as I could think of.

Gaby said...

I can tell you, Nancy, that as a pastor's wife I appreciate those types of men more than I can ever tell them. They are my husband's rock and always supporting, praying, and encouraging. My father-in-law is like that and we just buried one of those yesterday from a family in the church. It seems to be a generational thing though, because you just don't find them anymore.

Sheila said...

Nancy,

Thank you for this. What a legacy he's left us.

Megan Willome said...

He sounds like an amazing man. You describe him so well--it's like reading a novel.

Monica Sharman said...

"the sermon he had lived..."
That part was the best. :)

Mommy Emily said...

this made me teary for a man i've never met, for a life that touched many... you have such a way with words.

Anonymous said...

"God gives me grace to endure." Yes. Yes! Your uncle was an amazing man.

Patricia said...

The mimeograph machine got me, right along with welcoming broken people into his shop. How wonderful for you to have such an authentic man as your uncle. Beautiful story!

rjerdee said...

Wish I'd known your uncle...a gem.

Unknown said...

sigh.
how humbling,
his life,
your telling.

Ann Kroeker said...

This was telling: "He fixed broken things with his hands and welcomed broken people into his shop." and the fact that employed local people who were out of work or who had made bad choices.

You quoted that woman at the end who said, “I didn’t know men like that still existed.” I didn't, either. Until you introduced us to him. This is the power of telling their stories, of painting their portraits in words...and sharing them.

Jodi said...

I remember reading this before. I was moved and inspired then and now.

Leslie said...

I always feel like I can picture the people and places you write about, so vividly:

"It sounded true and made things like grace and endurance and service seem like things that really are true and really are gifts from God. He said it in a way that made me want to desire them more and want to complain less."

p.s. (glad the e.e. cummings encouraged you - it encouraged me, too :)

Kimberlee Conway Ireton said...

I came here from The High Calling and am so glad I did.

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful man. Thank you so much for sharing it.

I loved this line especially: "The sermon he had lived required the combined efforts of four pastors to preach."

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