Monday, May 30, 2011

Creation, Fall, Redemption, and Hungry, Hungry Hippos

It’s been some years since I’ve sat on the floor and played Hungry, Hungry, Hippos. One morning this week I arrived early at the home of friends in time to walk the older of their two daughters to her bus stop. As we waited, she told me she had a rock collection and pointed out some of her favorite stones nestled amidst the driveway gravel. We talked about how neat it was that God made rocks in all different shapes, colors, and sizes when He could have made them all the same. As we waited for the bus to arrive, my sweet friend pointed out anthills in the driveway, and we explored some moss growing on a log. The bus arrived and I received a hug and a wave from this dear little girl before she was carried off to her school.

Younger sister awoke and sat snugly on my lap, remnants of sleep dissolving into the promise of a new day. “Do you want to play with me?” she asked. And, yes, of course I did. She showed me her basket full of cars and told me about each one. Some of them, she said, were grumpy while others of the little vehicles were sweet. We played Hide-and-Seek, and I was told to hide in the guest room while my little friend hid in the toy closet. Every time. She knocked on the inside of the door and giggled wildly as I walked up and down the hallway, opening doors and calling out, “Where are you?” We played Hungry, Hungry, Hippos and I learned that the green hippo, like many of my friend’s cars, was also rather grumpy. It didn’t matter how we played the game or whose turn it was, or even that the little girl fed her marbles to the hippos by hand. We simply sat on the floor with nothing else to do but play, and I soaked up her giggles.

My friend asked if we could play outside. She ran on little toddler legs across the yard toward the swing set asking, almost singing, “Isn’t it a beautiful day?” I buckled her into a toddler swing, fumbling with safety latches that didn’t exist in the days when my children were young. I pushed; she swung, trailed by wisps of blond hair that were no longer baby-fine but completely unwilling to be captured by a barrette. When it was time to go back inside for lunch she ran again, and I caught just a glimpse of the shape of my own sweet baby girl at that age.

It was a beautiful day, a gift I received from two dear friends who needed help while they were closing on the purchase of a new home. Several friends from church took turns caring for their little ones throughout the day. My friend apologized for the imposition and offered to compensate us with pieces of her handmade pottery. I accepted the pottery because she makes beautiful pieces, but there was no imposition. It is always difficult to ask for help and humbling to admit one’s need to others. But in doing so, my friends gave me the gift of a beautiful life-giving morning filled with hugs, laughter, and play.

The father of these two sweet little girls preached Sunday morning about the ways in which relationships reflect the unfolding narrative of the gospel:  We were created for relationship, relationships were broken by the fall, the gospel heals and reconciles our relationships with God and one another, and in the consummation of the new heavens and new earth all relationships will be fully restored. He said:

As human beings created in God’s image, we were made for relationships and community.  We reflect God’s image when we are in community as the Trinity is in community.

In relationships, within the community of the body of Christ, we understand more fully the gift of the gospel. Living in the kingdom of God with its upside-down paradoxical principles we begin to witness and experience its many beauties.  In giving there is gain. In serving, we are blessed. In laying down our lives—our time, treasure, and possessions—we receive life.  In acknowledging need, we let go of the pretense of self-sufficiency and begin to understand our dependence on Christ and on others. In admitting our failures and asking for forgiveness, we receive reconciliation and healing. And on one beautiful summer morning while sitting on the floor playing Hungry, Hungry, Hippos with a sweet child, I sensed restoration of the years in my life that the locusts had eaten--ones that had passed by ever-so-quickly when my own dear ones were little.

Joining with Michelle @ Graceful in her Hear It, Use It community:


And, for the first time, my friend Laura @ Wellsprings who shares her Playdates with God:




With L.L. Barkat @ Seedlings in Stone for On, In, and Around Mondays:

 On In Around button

And continuing to count with Ann the multitude of gifts:


906. A dinner party with friends that felt like a foretaste of heaven.
907. Sunshine after many days of rain.
908. Daughter’s friends filling the house with life and laughter (even if she wasn’t here to join them)
909. Music festivals.
910. Son doing his thing, bringing joy to others.
911. A car load of sweet, funny middle school boys.
912. Music and picnic at local vineyard on a perfect summer evening.
913. Smoked seafood dip.
914. Garlic hummus.
915. Jazz.
916. Kids making their own fun.
917. Getting to play with two sweet girls.
918. The wave of a school girl from a bus.
919. Swings.
920. Handmade pottery.
921. Graduation party on a beautiful afternoon—good food, good conversation, dear friends.
922. The gang of fine young men and women surrounding the graduate.
923. A place to stay.
924. Beloved pastor returning to church following successful surgery.
925. Barbecue pizza with rock star diva girlfriend and family on yet another perfect evening.
926. Brave men and women who serve this country.
927. Those who gave all.

14 comments:

Sheila said...

Nancy,
Thank you for sharing this so vividly! I was right there with you, exploring the anthills, hiding in the guest room, and learning about grumpy green hippos.

Beautiful!

Brandee Shafer said...

"As human beings created in God’s image, we were made for relationships and community." You know what? I am thankful for my blog community that makes me feel connected in ways I had not been. Nice post. I need to get Clementine a Hungry Hippo game. And warn her about that hateful green hippo.

Unknown said...

I bet you had a blast playing HHH. I hope you won! This is such a beautiful post.

So...when are you coming to MY house to baby sit (Warning: someone may hit you in the head with a toy car)

Laura said...

May I just say that after reading the title of your post I was so looking forward to reading it? And now I am posting my comment under our dear friend Ostriches Look Funny. I'm not sure what the Lord is trying to tell me, but I'm not ready for a safari just yet!

This is the sweetest of posts. The way time does tiptoe, sometimes runs away yelling and screaming. This is how I am feeling lately as my boy seem to be taller each time I stand beside them. And isn't it just like our Father that when we are trying to be a blessing to someone He turns around and blesses us?

I'm so glad you joined me for Playdates today, Nancy! Next time we get together, maybe you can bring the hungry hungry hippos?

happygirl said...

soaking up giggles. You are such a talented writer. Thanks for sharing and reminding me of the need for church.

Gaby said...

Amen, Nancy! Why is it so hard for us to ask for help? This is what we were meant to be: community, life together, family, the BODY. I have to remind myself than in trying to live in isolation so I don't "impose" I am robbing my sister-friends of the blessings that it is to serve and to help. Thank you for putting this in such beautiful perspective.

Michelle derusha said...

That is a perfect playdate with God! I've played several rounds of Hungry Hippo myself in the last few weeks -- and strangely my hippo never seemed to win!

You are so right about the gift of community and friendship -- and you offered a precious gift in caring for your friends' little ones when they needed a hand. I am always so grateful for friends like you, especially since our family lives so far away. Thank God for community!

Amy Sullivan said...

I clicked over soley based on the fact that your title had the words "Hungry, Hungry Hippo" . You did not disappoint, but then again, you never do.

Love the way you write and share, Nancy.

Kristin said...

I have to admit too, the title reeled me in and so glad for it. I loved this post! I am also very grateful for community and am loving my newest one, the blogging community:)
Blessings to you

SL Burlhis said...

:-)

Leslie said...

i can just picture you on the floor playing that game. practicing up for being a grandma... you'll be a great one. what a sweet post.

Anonymous said...

I love that you accepted the pottery because it is beautiful, not because you felt it was owed to you. I'm sure it was a gift to your friend to be able to share it, just as it was a gift to you to play with her daughters.

I continue to struggle to know what authentic community looks like, opening myself up to give and receive help WITH strings attached - the strings of relationship and the bonds Jesus ties between us. You have given me a good picture here, Nancy!

Southern Gal said...

I forgot I had to type in the little words and lost my comment. Relationships are hard for me. Thanks for this insight.

You've had quite a few wonderful get togethers this week. Lovely.

Unknown said...

you so get it.

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