Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Sweetie



Once upon a time there was a young boy who had a caterpillar. The boy had a sister and both were being home schooled by their mother. She wanted them to see God’s fingerprints on every square inch of creation and believed science was a beautiful and essential part of that good creation. However, science textbooks made her feel as though her head was going to explode. So, she learned how to look for things like Monarch caterpillar eggs hidden underneath milkweed leaves and gave those to her children instead of books.

The boy’s caterpillar hatched from its egg and began to eat and grow, and the boy named him Sweetie, for that was what his mother often called him. Perhaps he thought Sweetie was the name given to all people and creatures that are deeply, deeply loved.

Each morning, the boy padded downstairs in his footed blanket sleeper, picked up the plastic container which held Sweetie, and plopped it down next to him on the breakfast table. The boy’s Cheerios grew soggy as he watched Sweetie slowly and methodically munch away on milkweed leaves. The boy seemed mesmerized, eyes fixed upon the caterpillar, thumb secured in his mouth. The mother wondered if even video games would have lured the boy away from watching his caterpillar. Secretly, this pleased her.

One day, the caterpillar climbed to the top of his container and hung himself upside down in the form of the letter “J,” as caterpillars are wont to do. The next morning, in place of Sweetie was a jewel-like, jade-green chrysalis, flecked in gold, bearing the fingerprints of the Maker of all things beautiful. After about two weeks, Sweetie emerged according to the Maker's design and just as described in science textbooks, should anyone bother to read them.


The boy carried Sweetie outside, placing him on the hydrangea bush next to the house so that his wings could dry. He, his sister, and mother left for gymnastics class, all wondering if Sweetie would still be there when they returned. When the boy got home, he was thrilled to discover his butterfly waiting for him on the bush. The mother, however, was horrified to find that Sweetie had wandered into a spider’s web and was helpless to escape.

Without a word, the mother sent the boy and his sister into the house. Her husband returned home to find her slowly and gently trying to disentangle Sweetie’s feet from the web of his captor.

“You’re upsetting the balance of nature,” he said.

“I don’t care!” replied the mother. “This is not happening. Not here. Not now. Not to my son’s butterfly!”

And so, for the love of her own dear son, the mother released Sweetie from the snare of the one seeking his destruction. She set him free to live out the ordained lifespan of a Monarch butterfly which, according to science textbooks, lasts roughly one year.

And now the mother watches her own dear son struggle to emerge from his boyhood chrysalis, knowing that he, too, has an enemy who preys upon him.  She knows that this enemy spins webs designed to entangle the feet of her son, and that she will be powerless to release him from the captor's snare should he wander into one of them. And so she prays to the One who loves her dear son even more than she, the One who demonstrated His love by sacrificing His own beloved Son to crush the enemy’s head, and set all captives free.

22 comments:

Leslie said...

Lovely analogy, Nancy.

Manda said...

Wow... hands on learning truly is the most touching. This was a sweet read for me today!

Brian Miller said...

nice...a beautiful tale...and i pray for my little caterpillars every night...in the same way...but wont it be onderful to watch them burst from their chrysalis...

elizabeth said...

Beautiful! Remembering the same type of "science" learning when my girls were small. Happy times...
Elizabeth
http://www.justfollowingjesus.com

Anonymous said...

Yeehaw for hands-on science to the glory of God! Praying along with you for your butterfly emerging. Love you!!!

Bethany Ann said...

through my tears, i'll tell you that i've acquired some nature books so that i will know what track belongs to which animal and what song belongs to which bird... i long to learn Creation with my three sons, and to see them fly... oh God, all the way to Heaven, all the way.

suzannah | the smitten word said...

oh, this has my eyes welling, too. those prayers are powerful and effective, and every whisper is heard on high.

grace and peace

Amanda MacB said...

Wow. Praying for this boy as well.

Mommy Emily said...

nancy... this made me shiver and cry. to think of this dear boy, entangled, and his Sweetie, and his mama... oh, please tell me this story has a happy ending, Lord... ((beautifully told, friend))

Jennifer @ JenniferDukesLee.com said...

Nancy,

I love his heart ...
and am praying he will fly, FLY!

Jodi said...

God bless and protect your Sweetie. Being a mom is so not easy. I used to think "Oh, when they get older, I'll worry less". HA! Learning to trust the One who loves them more is painful, but necessary. Lord, be with us.

life or something like it said...

I loved reading this!! So cool that you saw something SO spiritual through your son and "Sweetie". Thanks for sharing!

-t- said...

i so enjoyed this true life truth, thank you!

i love this echo too:
Perhaps he thought Sweetie was the name given to all people and creatures that are deeply, deeply loved.

our love-boy has had a few stuffed animals named 'Buddy' as that is what he often hears from his Daddy & me :}

Southern Gal said...

For you to patiently release that butterfly knowing the Father will do (is doing) the same for your own precious son...beautiful.

Maude Lynn said...

This is so, so lovely!

Anonymous said...

"For He shall set forth His Angels to guard you in all of your ways"...........On the wings of a butterfly!

Carrie Van Horn said...

Nancy this is such a beautiful analogy...:-)

Misty said...

nancy, first, thank you for your kind comments towards my hopelessness yesterday.

and this, oh, exquisite. so compelling and so .... transformative. i just love the scientific fascination of a butterfly but the deeper level of spiritual understanding... and above all that the Maker is glorified in the crushing of the enemy.

Kati patrianoceu said...

It's a crazy analogy, and so painful when the right thing to do is to wait for things to unfold naturally, hoping that that is the best.

Unknown said...

I read this yesterday but hadn't a chance to comment. This is really lovely and fun and amazing and true.

Honest Engine.

alexis nicole said...

I've always loved butterflies and this story was precious. I can never watch a creature suffer and fear the day when I may have to watch from a distance...
I just loved your analogy!

Michelle DeRusha said...

What a beautiful story, Nancy. I would have done the same thing -- released Sweetie against the laws of nature. Of course, we are moms, right? We protect our kids as best we can and leave most of it in the hands of God.

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